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Death Notices Cannarozzo, Joseph R. 1989 3C DEMOCRAT AND CHRONICLE. ROCHESTER. N.Y.. THURSDAY.

DECEMBER 28. Loneliness is perhaps the most difficult thing for a widow ear Ann Landers: Your advice to the Cleveland widow who complained about being lonely was worth Hess. Why don't YOU wake up land smell the coffee? You told her to have a party rind invite "three or four extra men." Get real, Ann. Don't you know that today there are at least eight widows to every widower? My husband died two years ago. I would love to go out with man occasionally, to a movie or a play or a concert or just 3or a simple dinner, but the question is, where do I find Tone? Please don't tell me to join a ingles group.

I tried that once. JJTjhere were 17 widows and two widowers. One was 42, the was 75. 1 decided that there ware worse things than being jUone and I had just seen a couple of them. Dover, N.J.

XiT. Dear Dover Thanks for the I received thousands of Similar ones after I printed the "Cleveland widow's letter. Read on: From Lansing, Miclu I'd like 1 to ask a question of the Cleveland widow who was married to Ed for 37 years and is now whining because her married Dec. 27. 1989.

Survived by his wife. Sally (Napoli); son and daughter-in-law, Rodney and JoAnn; daughter and son-in-law, Kathleen and Vincent Faggiano; brother and sister-in-law, Michael and Toni; sisters-in-law and brother-in-law, Gabriella and Marie Cannarozzo, Madeline Ange, Sam and Jewel Napoli; grandchildren, Rodney, Chris, and Michelle Cannarozzo. Blaise, Gina and Lauren Faggiano; nieces and nephews. Friends may call Thurs. and Fri.

2-4, 7-9 at Profetta Funeral Chapel Inc. 1 650 Empire Blvd. On Saturday mornning friends may go directly to Annunciation Church where his funeral mass will be offered at 9 a.m. Entombment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Veteran of WWII.

Member of the Monroe County Honor Guard and Yerkes-Couch-man-Kettewl Post c99 American Legion. Daniels, Joenell December 23, 1989. She is survived by 1 brother, Robert Sizer of NYC; a foster son, Thomas Sizer of Chicago, IL; a friend, Robert W. Hunter of Rochester; cousins, Jeanette Pressley of Philadelphia, PA, Lester Sizer of St. Petersburg, FL, Elaine Roe of Fairport, NY, Lexie Sizer of Rochester; a niece, Patricia Harris of Hartford, CT, other relatives.

Funeral Services today 1PM at the funeral home of M. E. LATIMER AND SON, 983 S. Plymouth Avenue, Rev. James L.

Cherry, officiating. Interment, Mt. Hope Cemetery. Darron, Irene A. (Kohls) On Dec.

25, 1989. She is survived by her husband, Ward; her daughter son-in-law, Caryl Frank Nelson ol Emporia KS; stepdaughter, Mary Hock ol Syracuse; stepson wife, Kenneth Janice Darron of Rush; sister brother-in-law, Jean Harold Eddy ol Eagle Harbor NY; sister-in-law, Catherine Klingenberger; brothers sisters-in-law, Percy Walter R. Maude Klingenberger of Bradenton FL, Lewis Grace Klingenberger of San Diego CA; 1 1 grandchildren; 5 great-grandchildren; several nieces nephews. THURSDAY 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. friends may call at Miller Funeral Homes 1625 Mt.

Hope Ave. where services will be held FRIDAY at 11 a.m. Interment will be at the convenience of the family. Those who wish may contribute to the Memorial Fund of the Rush United Methodist Church, P.O. Box 233, Rush NY 14543.

December 25, 1989, age 80. Survived by his wife, Harriet; daughters, Mrs. Willard (Joanne) Harmon of FL, Mrs. Donald (Geral-dine)Tauroof OH; 6 grandchildren; 10 great grandchildren; sister, Doris Hall. He was a mason, a Shrlner clown and member of Clowns of America, retiree of Eastman Kodak, Co.

Friends may call Thursday 2-4 7-9PM at Burns-Hanna Funeral Home, 1795 E. Ridge Rd. (between Goodman Culver). Funeral Service 1PM Friday. Interment, White Haven Memorial Park.

Davin, Dorothy Quinn Dec. 26, 1989. Survived by her daughters, Suzanne Bertolotti, Martha Sheppard Katharine Alessi; her son, Edward; 10 grandchildren; her sister, Alice Quinn; brothers, Charles James Quinn. No prior calling. Friends are invited to attend her memorial service at St.

Theodore's on Friday, Dec. 29th at 11 a.m. Memorials may be directed to Hospice (G.R.H.C.A.) Co St. Mary's Hospital, 89 Genesee 14611. Arrangements Fre-derieck W.

Frear Funeral Services. TURN TO PAGE 4C VINYL REPLACEMENT WINDOWS snenoo installed most sizes LIFETIME GUARANTEE CMMIUWORK 5605 Brockport pen carport Rd. estimates Man infected by plague cannot pass germ on to children Dear Dr. Donohue: Our family reads you whenever we travel where the local paper carries you. One thing I have neve? seen you discuss is the plague.

My husband got it when serving in the Army in the Pacific in World War II. We wonder just what it is. Will our children be affected? Does it return to affect the person who got it? What organs are affected? Mrs. MAS. Plague arises when humans enter the world of rodents, their fleas and the plague germ.

This disease decimated the European population in the Middle Ages and raged sufficiently to close public theaters in metropolitan areas in later centuries. Plague is seldom discussed today because there aren't many cases reported, only about 12 be- Nominees for Golden Globe awards announced Within Monroe County INDICATES THE FIRST APPEARANCE OF A PAID NOTICE IN THIS NEWSPAPER. Alati, Joseph D. December 26, 1989. He is survived by 1 son, Anthony Alati; daughter-in-law.

Sharon (La Rocque); step-daughter. Lucille llii and husband, Joseph; sisters, Mary Shyckworst of Visalia, CA and Antonietta Buongiorne of Rochester, NY; brother, James Alati of Visalia, CA; several nieces and nephews. Friends may call Thursday only 2-4 7-9 at Roncone Funeral Home, 850 N. Plymouth Ave. Prayers Friday morning Funeral Mass 10AM, St.

Anthony of Padua Church. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery Aubele, Robert Charles Dec. 22, 1989, of Merrimack NH, age 49. Mr. Aubele is survived by his wife, Mary E.

(Oertinger) Aubele of NH; 2 daughters, Kimberly ol Canton OH Kelly of Hamlin NY; his parents, Robert P. llene of SC; brother, Fred of OH; sisters, Theresa Gross, Kay Smith, Diane Miller Pamela Aubele, all of OH. Friends may call Thursday evening only 7-9 p.m. at the Paul W. Harris Funeral Home 570 Kings Highway S.

(corner of Titus). Funeral mass Friday at 9:30 a.m. at St. Thomas the Apostle Church. Interment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.

Bishop, Glenn A. FLORDIA: Dec. 24, 1989, Age 76. Survived by his wife Nellie; sons and daughters-in-law, William and Cathie, Rev. Bruce and Joan of NH; brother, Harry; sister, Eloise Koepke: 5 grandchildren.

He was a member of Redeemer Lutheran Church. Friends may call Fri. 2-4, 7-9PM at Younglove-Smith Funeral Home Inc. 1511 Dewey Ave. (One block N.

of Ridgeway). Funeral Service 10AM Sat. at Redeemer Lutheran Church. Interment Riverside Cemetery. In lieu of flowers friends wishing may contribute to Redeemer Lutheran Church 1549 Dewey Ave.

14615. Brightman, Albert December 27, 1989. Survived by his wife, Annette (Ann); daughters and sons-in-law, Linda and Joel Schrager, Sheila and Philip Kaplan; grandchildren, Lisa (Alan) Durie, Mark Schrager, Lori and Stephen Kaplan; great grandson, Alexander Durie; sisters, Pauline Cohen of Rochester, Sara Taylor of CA; sisters-in-law, Lillian Margolis of Rochester, Jesse Brightman of FL; several nieces and nephews. Funeral Services will be held in theChapel of the Parsky Funeral Home, 1 125 St. Paul St.

Friday, December 29th at 12noon. Interment, Britton Road Cemetery. Friends wishing may contribute to the Jewish Home Foundation or the Jewish Community Center, Senior Adult Dept. in his memory. Following the funeral, a period of mourning will be observed at 295 Ashley Dr.

from 2-4 7-9PM through Wednesday evening. Brown, Ethel M. SPENCERPORT: Tues. Dec. 26, 1989.

Survived by her brother, Cecil W. Brown of West Virginia; 3 sisters and brothers-in-law, Virginia Dunbar of Ohio, Margaret and Ray Kelrn; Ruby and James Austin; several nieces and nephews. Friends may call Friday 2-4, ONLY at the Walker Brothers Co. Funeral Home Inc. 15 West Ave.

Spenerport, where services will be held Saturday at 10AM. Interment Fairfield Cemetery. Contributions to the Gene-see Valley Heart Assoc. In her memory. Coffey, Jane M.

(Raff erty) On December 27, 1989. Beloved wife of Donald A. of Medford, NJ formerly of Pitts-ford NY. Age 68 years. Beloved mother of Kevin J.

of Irasburg, VT, and Grace M. Boody of Bristol, NH. Relatives and friends of the family are invited to attend the Mass of Christian Burial Sat. 10AM at St. Mary of the Lakes Church, Jackson Rd.

Medford, NJ. Interment Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Berlin, NJ. Contributions in her memory to Johns Hopkins Onocological Center, 550 Broadway, Suite 801, Baltimore, MD, 21205. Arrangements. Mathis Funeral Home.

Medford NJ PREGNANT? WHO CAN YOU TRUST? Pregnancy means different things to different people. For some, It's like a dream come true. For others, it's an unexpected surprise. At a time like this, who can you trust? Planned Parenthood has been providing pregnancy testing and counseling services to women In the Greater Rochester area for almost 60 years. If you-have questions about being pregnant, call Planned Parenthood at 546-2595.

Your visit Is completely confidential. Planned Parenthood of Rochester and the Gencwc Valley Inc. 114 University Ave. Rochester, NY 14605 546-2595 PUBLIC AUCTION Saturday, Dec. 30 at 10 am All remaining merchandise fixtures will be sold to highest bidder, Including: wall systems, counters, cash register, office equip.

furniture much morel Inspection at 9 am mm a 40 E. (oppoiitt mumrr paopu's and cherish the friends I have. Sacramento: In California, the widows are dropped like hot potatoes because they are considered a threat by their women friends. The wisest move for a California widow is to leave the state and go to Oregon, Washington or Alaska. Newark: When my husband died I felt like a fifth wheeL Then I joined a group called Widows or Widowers.

I had to show my husband's death certificate to prove he died. They don't want divorced people. I met a fabulous man at my first meeting, and life is beautiful again. I now know that love CAN be better the second time around. Baltimore: The widowers and divorced men in this town are looking for fillies half their age.

Any female over 40 is considered "over the hilL" The last woman in Baltimore to make a brilliant marriage was the Duchess of Windsor. Send your questions to Ann Landers, Creators Syndicate, 1554 S. Sepulveda Los Angeles, Calif. 90025. Please enclose a self-addressed, stamped envelope for a personal reply.

there to say? Your informant belongs to a group who say that the weight of food is what your body gains when ingesting it But of course calories do count If calorie content is high you have to either burn those calories or store them as fat Most readers will experience deja vu from your letter. The subject raged in its most recent incarnation a couple of decades back. Please don't tell me it is enjoying yet another life. FOR WORRIED Oligomenorrhea isn't a diagnosis, it is a sign menstrual bleeding of less-than-normal frequency. The causes are too many to comment on here.

You have to be examined closely. The question to ask the doctor is, why do I have this oligomenorrhea? Send your questions to Paul G. Donohue, M.D., P.O. Box. 19660, Irvine, CA 92713.

in Hollywood Ghostbusters II, which received no nominations. Batman and Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade earned only one each. In the foreign press' TV nominations, the leading nominee was L.A. Law with eight Cheers and Lonesome Dove followed with four each. Joining Glory and Born on the Fourth of July in the race for best dramatic motion picture are Crimes and Misdemeanors, Dead Poets Society and Do the Right Thing.

Apart from When Harry Met Sally the battle for best comic or musical movie includes Driving Miss Daisy, The Little Mermaid, Shirley Valentine and The War of the Roses. The Golden Globes will be presented at the Beverly Hilton Hotel on Jan. 20 and will be seen on the TBS Superstation in a show produced by Dick Clark. The foreign press will present its honorary Cecil B. DeMille award to Audrey Hepburn.

Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St. Paul St: Animal of the month is the amphibian. Daily 10 a.m.-5 p.m. (342-2744) Springdale Farm, 696 Colby Northampton Park, Ogden, free guided tours (45 minutes) Hours: 10 a.m.-. 4 p.m.

(352-5320) Strasenburgh Planetarium of the Rochester Museum Science Center, 657 East Ave. 8 p.m. Admission: $4 adults; $2.50 students through high school; $2.50 for seniors, daytime only; members free. Children under 5 admitted daytime shows only. (442-7171) The Nutcracker Ballet, Eastman Theatre, 26 Gibbs 6 p.m.

$21, $18, $15, Public Ice Skating, SUNY Brockport arena, a.m., p.m., 7-9 p.m. $2 adults; $1.50 kids; $1 students. Skate rental and sharpening $2 each. (395-2244) job is a mix of learning and entertainment. "We're not a carnival.

We're not an amusement park. We're an education place. We try to marry education and fun. Lots of the kids who come to us, they say 'I didn't know going to a museum could be That's not a bad thing for a kid to say. In fact, it's a very good thing." Single tickets are $7, $5 for museum associates, seniors and students.

Tickets for the Collectors Showcase are $18, $12 for the museum associates, seniors and students. Single tickets are $6, $4 for museum associates, seniors and students. Both series will be held at the museum, 1 Manhattan Square. For further information, call 263-2700, extension 202. another's company.

Brooklyn: I was a widow at 50 and positive that there could never be another man in the entire world as kind and loving as my Herman. I was wrong. My sister-in-law nagged me for months to go to a meeting of Parents Without Partners. Finally I gave in so she'd leave me alone. There I met my second Prince Charming.

It was love at first sight We will celebrate our third wedding anniversary in February. Raleigh, N.G: That widow in Cleveland who misses her husband so much can have mine. I've been married to this miserable skunk for 51 years. He was a gambler, a drunk and a chaser until he wore himself out The man was no father and no husband. I pray God will take him first and grant me a few years alone.

Chicago: A spouse should enrich one's life, not define it I'm 34 and lost a wonderful man two years ago. I had a terrific marriage and hope I'll get another chance to love again. In the meantime, I'm not looking. I'm going to live my life, develop my skills, further my career high fever shortly afterward. The person feels terribly sick.

Lymph nodes swell. By this time the germ has broken out into the blood and sickness develops to the point of shock. Without treatment death occurs in about 60 percent of cases. The antibiotic streptomycin kills the plague germ, permitting a favorable outcome in almost all cases today. With this the whole affair ends.

Your husband, you and your progeny will never be affected in any way from his past encounter. Dear Dr. Donohue: Please settle this, and please no short answers. America needs to know. A friend says the calorie count of food is not important in losing weight If you drink a cola, it doesn't matter if it's diet or not, you still gain the 12 ounces.

How about it? RI This is nonsense. What else is Among the more unusual nominations: Jack Nicholson, picked for best actor in a musical or comedy for Batman, which almost everyone considers a drama; and Bruce Willis, named for best supporting actor for In Country, the movie in which Willis is the most prominent player. The critically acclaimed Holocaust drama Enemies, A Love Story was blanked, as was Steven Spielberg's Always. Henry and its star Kenneth Brannagh did not collect any nominations. Drugstore Cowboy was ignored as welL Steven Soderbergh, the heralded director of sex, lies and videotape, was nominated not for his directing but for his writing, sex, lies and videotape also was picked for best dramatic actress for Andie MacDowell and best supporting actress for Laura San Giacomo.

The Golden Globe voters paid little attention to some of this year's box-office blockbusters, including Honey, Shrunk the Kids, Look Who's Talking and tan Square, hands-on activity center for children ages 3-7. 11 a.m.-1 p.m. and 2-4 p.m. $2 adults; $1.50 students and seniors; 75 cents children 4-16; children under 4 free. (263-2700) Genesee Country Nature Center, Flint Hill Road, Mumford, between Thruway exits 47 and 46.

Hours: 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; $1.50 adults; $1 seniors; 50 cents children 6-12 years; members and children under 6 free. (538-6822) Rochester Museum Science Center, 657 East Ave. 9 a.m.-5 p.m.; $3.50 adults, $3 seniors; $2 students K-12; preschoolers and members free. (271-4320) Rochester Toy Library, 280 North hands-on environment featuring quality toys promoting exploration In play, ages lnfant-8 years. Hours: 4-8 p.m.

(546-6220) tion, then later at a small commu nity newspaper. That led into his life as a public relations director at the Oakland Museum. "I decided that if I was going to do PR, I'd rather sell education than pesticides," he said. "At the time, I really knew nothing about PR, but I learned from my boss, and learned on the projects we did." Northwood said he realizes his (April 25). Each program begins at 7:30 and last approximately 90 minutes.

Adams hopes the two series will be ongoing annual events, and believes the constancy will also help increase the museum's visibility and swell patronage. Tickets for the Making American Music series are $21 for four concerts, $15 for Strong Museum associates, seniors and students. inn LAMDEMS friends don't invite her anywhere. Welcome to death and divorce, dearie. How many widows did YOU entertain when you were happily married to Ed? Darned few, I'll bet The loneliness you are now experiencing is the chickens coming home to roost Tacoma, May I tell "Cleveland" how to cope with widowhood? Forget about men.

What's out there isn't worth bothering about Oh sure, there are plenty of sponges who would be happy to join you for dinner (at your place, of course) and park their shoes under your bed, but not one is worth a damn. Stick with your widowed friends and enjoy one PAULCDOHOnUE tween 1986 and 1988. Without modern sanitation and drugs we'd still be hostage to this potent organism. Plague occurs when a flea bites a rat infected with the plague germ. That flea then bites a human, who in turn becomes infected.

Any organ can be affected, the illness usually beginning with a ries, drama and musical or comedy. They also nominate TV programs for trophies. Tom Cruise, who stars in Born on the Fourth of July as the paraplegic Vietnam veteran Ron Kovic, received one of the movie's five nominations, for best dramatic actor. The film was also nominated for best dramatic motion picture, best director (Oliver Stone), best screenplay (Stone and Kovic), and best original score (John Williams). Glory, the story of an all-black Civil War regiment, collected nominations for best dramatic motion picture, best director (Edward Zwick), best supporting actor (Denzel Washington), best screenplay (Kevin Jarre) and best original score (James Horner).

The romantic comedy When Harry Met Sally was selected for best musical or comic picture, best comic actor (Billy Crystal), best comic actress (Meg Ryan), best director (Rob Reiner) and best screenplay (Nora Ephron). and members free. (271-4320) Jewelry Workshop, ages 11-17, Brighton Memorial Library, 2300 Elm-wood 2 p.m. To register call 473-5420. School Holiday Program, ages 7-12, In Discovery Room, Ontario County Historical Society Museum, 55 N.

Main Canandaigua, 10 a.m.-noon. (394-4975) Discovery Room, temporarily located In new building, "hands on" activities, demonstrations, and exhibits, International Museum of Photography at George Eastman House, 900 East Ave. Children and adults welcome, by appointment only. (271-3361) Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Road, Per-inton, animals to feed and pet, daily 10 a.m.-5 p.m. (223-1330) One History Place, The Margaret Woodbury Strong Museum, 1 Manhat- tronic field The problem is, right now there aren't enough people like Bob Ballard on the other end." In the beginning, when North-wood was a history student at the University of California at Berkeley, he expected to one day be a teacher.

But by 1970, he decided against it, began working at a radio sta- The lecture series, titled "Collectors Showcase," opens with di-vulgences and anecdotes of local collector and antiques maven Edward Cornwell (Jan. 31), and continues with a discussion and history and folklore of American quilts by maker Linda Halpin (Feb. 28); a demonstration of magic lanterns by Richard Balzer (March 28); and a talk on "Glass in the White House" by Jane Shadel Spillman. curator of American Glass at the Coming Museum of Glass I WW aHQPB5 By John Horn The Associated Press BEVERLY HILLS, Calif. -Born on the Fourth of July, Glory and When Harry Met Sally all films released in the latter half of the year, drew five Golden Globe nominations apiece yesterday from the Hollywood Foreign Press Association.

Earning four nominations apiece for the 47th Annual Golden Globes were Dead Poets Society, Do the Right Thing and The Little Mermaid. While the 80 members of the foreign press here are not considered to be film appreciation experts, the Golden Globes often serve as a bellwether for the Academy Awards. Both the nomina-tions and the awards are featured prominently in movie advertisements. The foreign press, unlike the of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences, divides films and star performances into two catego- IVIIAT'S DOING TODAY Cold Blooded Penguin and Ugly Duckling, Rochester Museum Science Center, 657 East 1 p.m. free with museum general admission, $3.50 adults; $3 seniors; $2 students K-12; preschoolers and members free.

(271-4320) Otmoo (1941), Elsenhart Auditorium, Rochester Museum Science Center, 657 East 1 p.m. free with museum general admission, $3.50 adults; $3 seniors; $2 students K-12; preschoolers and members free. (271-4320) "Hawk Talk," by Jeftery Dodge, Rochester Museum Science Center, 657 East 2 p.m., free with regular museum admission, $3.50 adults; $3 seniors: $2 students K-12; preschoolers Bill Northwood to leave RMSC FROM PAGE 1C Rochester generations. "With things like the Jason Project, you can't do the kind of project we did in every school. But you can say, 'let's go on an elec- New events at Strong Museum FROM PAGE 1C of Monroe Brass (March 14) and a rare demonstration of a nearly-extinct instrument invented by Benjamin Franklin: the glass harmonica, played by touching the fingertips to cylinders of glass as 'they are turned in a trough of water (April 18).

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